Heart Recovery
I just read an article in Iran-newspaper about how to recover your broken heart. There were some instructions. Mostly he said what I should not do. I do want to list some of them here to make sure that I'm deeply understood.
It's true that I'm not really out of order. He said I should not substitute another guy until my heart will be cured, and I didn't(Thank God); In fact I couldn't; Maybe I would if I could. Also I haven't met someone special. So I still have to be careful. The other suggestion was do not review all the memories everyday. Do not make a miserable person from yourself by chewing the cud. I do that all the time; I'm bad.
Do not hang round him by Email, SMS, Telephone and middleman. I didn't exactly in the way he said but I did in my way. Probably he could not guess someone can hang round someone else by checking his weblog everyday, to make herself available in yahoo messenger and lots of other ways without having direct contact with him. If he could guess he would have mentioned them in his forbidden list. I have never done something to lose my dignity and self-respect but .. You know .. I feel stupid when I am messing around him even with my steady dignity.
The other thing is that do not waste your time and energy in thinking about revenge. You can use that time and energy for spiritual improvement. I have never thought about revenge, but I have to confess with shame that sometimes I feel like to see that his marriage doesn't work out. Just to see his parents burning like me and regretful. But when I remember his oppressed face that the only thing he wants is a peaceful life, I blame myself. He is well worth it to have a good life, and if he would not have, it means that I suffered giving him up without any harvest. I want it, I truly want him to be happy although he tore my heart out in the worst way he could ever do.
Next tip is to avoid cigarette and drinking. I'm safe.
The best part was to take refuge(I don't know if it's a right expression) in God and parents which are the best loves for substitution. :)
For those who know Persian . Article.
It's true that I'm not really out of order. He said I should not substitute another guy until my heart will be cured, and I didn't(Thank God); In fact I couldn't; Maybe I would if I could. Also I haven't met someone special. So I still have to be careful. The other suggestion was do not review all the memories everyday. Do not make a miserable person from yourself by chewing the cud. I do that all the time; I'm bad.
Do not hang round him by Email, SMS, Telephone and middleman. I didn't exactly in the way he said but I did in my way. Probably he could not guess someone can hang round someone else by checking his weblog everyday, to make herself available in yahoo messenger and lots of other ways without having direct contact with him. If he could guess he would have mentioned them in his forbidden list. I have never done something to lose my dignity and self-respect but .. You know .. I feel stupid when I am messing around him even with my steady dignity.
The other thing is that do not waste your time and energy in thinking about revenge. You can use that time and energy for spiritual improvement. I have never thought about revenge, but I have to confess with shame that sometimes I feel like to see that his marriage doesn't work out. Just to see his parents burning like me and regretful. But when I remember his oppressed face that the only thing he wants is a peaceful life, I blame myself. He is well worth it to have a good life, and if he would not have, it means that I suffered giving him up without any harvest. I want it, I truly want him to be happy although he tore my heart out in the worst way he could ever do.
Next tip is to avoid cigarette and drinking. I'm safe.
The best part was to take refuge(I don't know if it's a right expression) in God and parents which are the best loves for substitution. :)
For those who know Persian . Article.
posted by Kimia @ 7:42 PM
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